Pretending you are strong means you are trying to take away the pain, you are trying to fix your life, you are trying to show and make yourself realize that what failed you isn't your everything. That means you seem like you're part of the elite group, a group where everything seems to be so perfect that even a mistake means a lot. It is not a form of self-deception, nor a way of escape. It is a way perhaps, to keep your life on track.
Life may be rude, making you lonely and pushing you down at times. And limiting yourself within the cage of self-pity and immaturity, focusing much on emotion won't be so good. Yes, it is good to give time for yourself, time to cry, time to hit yourself, time to throw away things, time to feel the anger. But dear, much time won't be healthy. If we will just focus our minds to this kind of thinking, what do you think will happen to your life? Life does not end here.
Earth continuously rotates on it axis every 24 hours of a day, and revolves around the sun every 364.25 days of a year. Frogs still lay eggs, rivers lively flow, time lapses unstoppably. Everything around you is in motion. Things move on its own path with or without you. And if you will keep your feet stuck on where you are, you will be left, along with those needing you. Waiting for the moment when you have fully recovered, when you have forgotten the pain of failure will take much of your short time. You can still do a lot more things than just sitting there and waiting for other people to approach you and give you some help. Learn to bear the pain, for there are so much more to come. Start as soon as you have given enough space for yourself and eventually total healing will come. God, family, friends- you still have them, they could help.
You can make it. Or just pretend you could. It will help, I believe. It will really do. If you would inculcate in your mind, then you can do it. It is like a force which drives you to the will of being strong. For it makes you realize how strong you were and how strong you could be when there is no choice left for you but to be such.
Be proud, you are awesome. I salute you. For even in your greatest fear, in your low times, you are trying to fight that thought that you can't do it.
Life may be rude, making you lonely and pushing you down at times. And limiting yourself within the cage of self-pity and immaturity, focusing much on emotion won't be so good. Yes, it is good to give time for yourself, time to cry, time to hit yourself, time to throw away things, time to feel the anger. But dear, much time won't be healthy. If we will just focus our minds to this kind of thinking, what do you think will happen to your life? Life does not end here.
Earth continuously rotates on it axis every 24 hours of a day, and revolves around the sun every 364.25 days of a year. Frogs still lay eggs, rivers lively flow, time lapses unstoppably. Everything around you is in motion. Things move on its own path with or without you. And if you will keep your feet stuck on where you are, you will be left, along with those needing you. Waiting for the moment when you have fully recovered, when you have forgotten the pain of failure will take much of your short time. You can still do a lot more things than just sitting there and waiting for other people to approach you and give you some help. Learn to bear the pain, for there are so much more to come. Start as soon as you have given enough space for yourself and eventually total healing will come. God, family, friends- you still have them, they could help.
You can make it. Or just pretend you could. It will help, I believe. It will really do. If you would inculcate in your mind, then you can do it. It is like a force which drives you to the will of being strong. For it makes you realize how strong you were and how strong you could be when there is no choice left for you but to be such.
Be proud, you are awesome. I salute you. For even in your greatest fear, in your low times, you are trying to fight that thought that you can't do it.
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